Pictures of why you don’t reply to messages: Analysis of hot topics on the Internet in the past 10 days
In the era of information explosion, the phenomenon of "cannot read back" on social media has triggered widespread discussion. This article will sort out the hot topics on the Internet in the past 10 days, and analyze the social pain point of "why not reply to messages". At the same time, structured data will be attached to show the hot trends.
1. Ranking of hot topics on the entire network (last 10 days)

| Ranking | topic | heat index | Main platform |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Copyright dispute over AI-generated images | 9,850,000 | Weibo/Zhihu |
| 2 | Psychological analysis of why you don’t reply to messages | 7,620,000 | Douyin/Xiaohongshu |
| 3 | Summer extreme weather warning | 6,930,000 | news client |
| 4 | New cases for post-00s rectification in the workplace | 5,780,000 | Station B/Maimai |
| 5 | Internet celebrity drink safety scandal | 4,950,000 | Douyin/Weibo |
2. The reason why "Why don't you reply to messages" has become a social pain point?
1.Increased social pressure:Data shows that nearly 70% of young people said they have been troubled by "cannot read back". This kind of social behavior is interpreted as indifference, neglect, and even triggers a crisis in interpersonal relationships.
2.Psychological factor analysis:
| No return message type | Proportion | main reason |
|---|---|---|
| job information | 35% | Stress avoidance/procrastination |
| private social | 45% | Emotional avoidance/not knowing how to respond |
| business information | 20% | Deliberately ignoring/disinterested |
3.The rise of emoticon culture:The spread data of "no reply messages" related emoticons in the past 10 days show:
| Emoticon type | Usage | Main usage scenarios |
|---|---|---|
| humor resolving type | 23 million | teasing among friends |
| Protest and accusation type | 18 million | intimacy |
| Workplace specific | 9.5 million | work communication |
3. New trends in social etiquette
1.Consensus on reply time limit:The survey shows that modern people’s expectations for information responses to different relationships vary significantly:
| Relationship type | Expect reply time | Tolerance time limit |
|---|---|---|
| intimacy | Within 2 hours | 12 hours |
| ordinary friends | Within 12 hours | 24 hours |
| working relationship | within 4 hours | working day |
2.New communication rules:The three most popular communication methods in the past 10 days:
-Pre-emptive communication:"Busy now, reply later" notification in advance
-Emoticon buffer:Use emoticons to maintain conversational presence
-Period division:Explicitly set "Do Not Disturb" periods
4. Summary
In the age of digital socialization, "why not reply to messages" has become a common anxiety. Data shows that nearly 60% of social conflicts stem from out-of-sync communication rhythms. Understanding communication needs in different scenarios and establishing reasonable response expectations may improve interpersonal relationships more than simply asking "why you didn't reply." In the future, social etiquette will tend to find a balance between timeliness and personal space.
Note: The statistical period of the above data is from November 1 to 10, 2023. The data sources include hot search lists and user surveys on mainstream social platforms such as Weibo, Douyin, Zhihu, and Xiaohongshu.
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